Why Horsemanship through Leadership

My intention for this blog is to offer a resource I wish I had as I moved along my horsemanship journey. The clinics I attended were too far apart for the right sequential learning to happen, my horse and I were in a beautiful but isolated spot and I often felt unsure as to the progress we were making. The advice, the videos the examples demonstrated rarely seemed to reflect the problems I seemed to encounter with my horse.

In hindsight I realise what I faced with my horse stemmed from the same place and it was only through repetition and making the same mistake I started to recognise my horse was simply reflecting my own bad behaviours. Horsemanship is not extrinsic - it is not about the awards or the ribbons, it is about the internal journey we must make in order to become a better person, both with horses and those around us.

I'd be happy to chat with you if you are in need of additional support in your horsemanship journey.

Friday, February 19, 2010

Where are you at?

There is nothing like putting a video out there - for the experts to appear. It's an interesting test one could say.

But I stand by what I know and what I do. Thing is it is really easy to get opinionated about what you think you see someone else doing. Long ago I learned to hold my judgement on what I "thought" I saw to see what the results were. When I let go of my own bias's and judgements it was really interesting to reflect on what I learned.

There are as many ways to work with a horse as there are people. The method you chose must suit your personality and inevitably you have to redefine what is within your comfort zone.

How I start a colt is very different than how I might work with a horse who has developed "undesirable" behaviours. That horse wan't born that way, but he learned that from his interactions with humans. As I see it, the way a horse thinks. Is it's worked with other humans why wouldn't this one be any different?

Well I am different and I don't particularly like getting pushed, stepped on or dragged around. So I make that pretty clear. I am more than willing to match the energy a horse puts into being rude with a message that makes it pretty clear - that kind of behaviour is unacceptable to me. Sometimes you just have to speak louder in order to be heard - whispering will just not cut it.

So what some people see as unacceptably harsh behaviour -- are missing some of the prelude to the video and are not seeing the power that a horse can put into what appears to be a minor infraction.

What I do recognise is the change in the horse's behaviour - something that is hard to capture in a 10 min youtube video. As I get better at editing the video clips - I'm pretty confident people will see what I see.

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